Instead of continuing from my last article, i thought it best to talk about what's coming up and what has passed. First my thought's on the Superbowl. It's going to be quick because... well i'm not really a sports person, And though i hate people, i love social events.
So the superbowl happened! And it was cool, My Giants won! Yeah i'm from New York, deal with it. Fun fact, Kim actually won tickets to a Giants game and took me back when we were still going out. The new Giants stadium is pretty cool. Anyways, it was a close and full of pressure game. But the Giants definitely stuck it out, i knew they were going to win the minute they got that safety.
Anyways enough about football, what are my thought's on the Superbowl? I think that it's the one time of year that everyone get's into football. It really is a great time, and if you don't watch it, you really should. For the sake of being around friends, and being socially aware. The halftime show and the commercials are big social topics. Speaking of, i liked the halftime show! As you all well know, i love Nicky Minaj, and i actually really like MIA, and i'm glad to see her back. I'm not the biggest fan of Madonna, but i liked "Beautiful Stranger" from Austin Powers, because it had the 60's feel. The song itself, was pretty good. I liked it. The only thing that ruined it was the cheering. Did not really like that, made me think of Gwen Stefani, and... ehh...
The commercials were... ok. None were really that special. And Cee Lo Green was there. He pisses me off, but i still somewhat like him. I can't really hate him.
Alright that's enough about the Superbowl, onto the most useless holiday on the Calender! No, not Columbus Day!
the basic premise of Valentine's Day is that it's a day where you cherish the one you love, or the one you like and you get them Flower's and Chocolates. Maybe diamonds. A lot of people take this opportunity to propose or ask a girl out. Proposing just seems so cliche to me, but asking a girl out, now there's an idea! I'm against proposing on Valentines day because... it's so expected. And it makes a day that's supposed to be special, and overshadow it with a holiday. Pick a random day to propose, not a holiday. Make a random day special, that is romance. Why am i into the idea of asking a girl out though? Because a lot of guys are shy, and this gives you an excuse to ask out any girl you fancy. And with that i applaud Valentine's day.
But why do i detest it? A lot of men are aware of this, and it's joked about a lot. Valentine's day is another day for women to get a gift. That's the stereotype. Valentine's day is a great day for NEW love, but relationships, and marriages? Everyday should be treated like a Valentines day. That's my philosophy.
When it comes to love, if your with someone for love, then everyday should feel different, everyday should be full of love. That's what marriage is all about. Nowadays, marriage is so over hyped, over done, it's not done right. This is why the divorce rate is so high! People marry because they don't want to be alone, they wanna settle, they want to have a family. They marry for the wrong reasons. Marriage is a ceremony honoring love, not the future, not the past, not family, not togetherness. Marriage is a ceremony honoring two people who feel strongly about each other, who can't be without each other. People who are together who love each other so much, they share pain, they share happiness, they don't want to lie to each other. Yeah you may think i'm a romantic, but thats the only way i see marriage working.
So this is my thoughts on love in general not just Valentines Day. Valentines Day is a day that people confuse as a "day of love". It's not. It's a day to cherish the one your with. That's a huge difference. And that's why i think it's useless. Everyday you should cherish the one your with. That should be a requirement in relationships. Therefore, any relationship i think should get a pass on Valentines Day.
As for new ones... have fun yo! Ask out a girl you think is pretty, ask out a guy you think is cute. Take a chance, take a leap. Be with someone! Have a safe Valentine's Day *cough* condoms *cough* and have a great one. I'll be spending it alone, but i have my reasons.
Love to all!
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