Sluts

Now i posted a status update on my facebook. No i'm not giving my name or even my status. all i have to say is... it was about sluts. Now i don't have many friends, actually right now i have exactly 100. Which is a feat to me. I actually went down 2 friends. On a tangent, can i say that facebook should have a feature where you can see who defriended you?! I don't care, i'm just really curious!

Anyways back on point... the status i put up was actually liked by 2 people who i never talk to. 1 of them was a "friend"? I guess? of my ex. Kim. the bitch. And the other was liked by a girl i always thought was ugly and is friends with a guy who loves sluts. I don't THINK she is one, but she puts on that... front. You know the type of girl... bitchy and shows off that she is a bitch, loves people like... Jenna Marbles and watches shows like Jersey Shore. Friends with players and talks about sex and bitches and sluts. whatever..

Point is, i never talk to them two. I have never tried, nor have i ever wanted to. The first one i think hates my ex, which i don't care about one way or another. But that status might get back to my ex, in which case i might have some drama on my hands. It wasn't meant for her, i wrote that after watching a video where a guy's best friend was a slut and she said, "My pant's aren't fort knox, it's not a big deal..." I laughed my ass off at that.

Point is we need to clarify what a slut is exactly. And be sure you know a girl before you call her anything. Case in point. Back to kim, she once called herself, "the sluttiest slut of them all". She wore that title PROUDLY. Whoa, isn't that... a bad title? No. Not if it's true. It's just fact right? Wrong. This is where it gets complicated, so you might want to pay attention to this cause it's funny, and it's fucked.

By definition, my ex was a whore. Urbandictionary it, that is what she was. But she said she was a slut. Me being the OCD whatever i am... we'll go with idiot. So me being the idiot i am, i correct her. "Your not a slut... your a whore!" She doesn't take kindly to that... We get into an argument. She argues that she isn't a whore... but she is. She say's slut, i say whore, whats the difference exactly?

So for those who don't understand it on Urban dictionary, i'll explain it here. A slut is a girl...or guy, who has sex for fun. A whore is a girl... or guy, who has sex in exchange for something. Usually a whore is an excessive word for slut, the reason for this is people who are THAT bad are looked at and talked about like, "Geez, they must be doing it for SOMETHING." So i backtracked. i told her i was sorry, and she wasn't a whore... i lied... but i said it!

Anyways i took this time to study this phenomena. After having sex with her i realized something... She was the biggest whore i know. That is just the truth! She's damn near just hooking! Again, disclaimer... I'm not trying to insult her. I just like having things straight. Now if you read my post on the first time i had sex, you'd know how bad this girl was. To add to that, she would act as if sex was a job. She'd do this by only trying to make me cum, or just rejecting me and playing the Sims over me. This girl was supposed to be a huge slut, yet i didn't feel like we had that much sex. I thought it'd be sex all the time, but no. For as much time as we had, we spent more time doing of the shit. She just wanted to get me off, that's all sex was to her.

So i got home confirmed in my belief that she was a whore. A slut would've had sex regardless of the circumstance, just cause it was fun for her. Kim acted like it was troublesome. But why did she get so mad when i called her what she actually was? It's cause she knew that's what she actually was. It's important to make it clear this girl was in high school, she did drugs, she wanted a normal life like any other teen in this world. That means, sex. Sex is a normal thing teens do. It's basically a rite of passage. She was just introduced to it a different way. She knows it as a means to get attention. Therefore, she is an attention whore. It sucks but that's the way it is. She hates that she's a whore, that's why she got mad at me. She was ok with slut, because guys love sluts! When you go to high school, and you go to college, the hottest girls are sluts! That's like the hottest guys being douches. It just is, so her being a slut, in her mind, was equal to her being hot. It was a self esteem booster. But being a whore, ugly girls are whores. Whore, is an ugly word. Slut, is a dirty word. Slut is kinky. Whore is troublesome.

Where am i going with this? I have no clue. I just thought a point needed to be made. The world loves sluts, and whores are... not loved as much. For that reason i have a feeling my ex isn't going to be to happy with herself in the future. I mean i wish nothing bad on her, sure she hurt me and cheated on me, and wanted to keep using me... but thats all in the past. I'm a better person because of her... Like my mother! I hope Kim does well, i'm just sayin... she keeps going down the road she is going... she's not going to be happy, or well liked. But maybe i just think about things way too much...